Member Resources

Dear Members,

Dealing with the aftermath of abuse can cause intense, difficult to manage emotions. If you feel unable to cope and find yourself in crisis, this is a list of possible numbers to call where you can find immediate help. We all need help at times, it is important to reach out for that help when it becomes necessary.

Domestic Violence:
National Domestic Violence Hotline

• 1-800-799-SAFE
• 1-800-799-7233
• 1-800-787-3224 TTY

Rape, Abuse, Incest (RAINN):
National Sexual Assault Hotline

• 1-800-656-HOPE

Suicide:
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline

• 1-800-273-TALK
• 1-800-273-8255

UK:
Samaritans: Crisis Hotline

• 08457 90 90 90
• ROI: 1850 60 90 90

Welcome to In Real Life, a place of growth and hope for survivors of sexual abuse, rape and domestic violence. We are a community of people who have suffered just as you have; people who know what it’s like to feel alone, silenced, and betrayed. This is a place of acceptance; wherever you are in your life right now, whatever you are going through, you will find support, understanding and real help. Many of us have never had a place where we can feel safe to be our real selves, a place to explore and express our honest thoughts and feelings. This is such a place, and it is no small coincidence that you are here, reading this right now.

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